We usually plant red flowers in the pots out front each spring, but in honor of Mom this year we went with yellow.
We usually plant red flowers in the pots out front each spring, but in honor of Mom this year we went with yellow.
Again, despite circumstances, it was nice to see people. Especially Uncle Mick (standing next to Dad) who we don't get to spend nearly enough time with.
We set up an array of Mom's quilts for people to see, as well as putting out some of our vacation books and other things. We had a slideshow of pictures through her life going on the wall as well. An officiant named Hubert came and did the memorial for us, he did an amazing job.
Today we had Mom's memorial, or celebration of life as it was called. It's still surreal to me that she's gone, or at least gone from this material plane. Like the world should have drastically altered to accommodate her loss, but it just keeps going on like normal.
Gathering today for Mom's memorial. It's really good to see everyone, even if the circumstances are not what we'd want. Payton, Lonnie, me and Mari.
As we go through old pictures looking for memories of Mom, we've come across a lot of events. Here's a fun blast from the past, Mari and I's wedding day. With Mom, Dad, and Grampa Woody.
The kids across the street drew this for Dad to cheer him up. As I've mentioned his cul-de-sac has been extremely kind through the whole week.
Even in grief, life goes on and we find things to laugh and be happy about. As we went through things at Dad's house we found this old hat of his from Australia and he was kind enough to model it.
We were supposed to have Mom's memorial this coming Wednesday, but COVID has reared it's ugly head. First Steve wasn't feeling good and tested positive, now so have Jenni and Megan. So the memorial has been put off for now and we're doing our best to get through the outbreak. So far Mari, Dad and I are in the clear.
A beautiful bouquet of lilies from Casie and John are among several floral arrangements that have arrived for Mom.
We often joked about Mom's posh upbringing, especially when it came to her not using her fingers to eat. This was highlighted by her having the first princess phone ever installed in Oakland. Such an honor it even made the newspaper. Here's a photo from the newspaper shoot.
Going through pictures, reminiscing. California Mom and Dad looking cool standing in front of their little convertible Alpha Romeo.
Bittersweet. Dad gave us Mom's favorite hat and the stuffed elephant mom named Ellie. Mari got it for her to hug in the hospital. They are a permanent duo in their spot in our house.
Dad's neighbors have all ben very kind. Coming over to check on him, bring him food. They called mom and dad the official grandparents of the block. Heartwarming to see how loved mom is. This meal courtesy of his neighbors.
Jenni, Steve, and Megan flew right out to be with us in Tennessee. Having them here is a huge relief.
This is not where I wanted to be today, I'd rather be at the hospital visiting my recovering mom. But life isn't always fair. The whole family is a mess at the moment, but the people here at Lakeside have been extremely kind.
As you might remember Mom had bladder cancer, which had been messing with her kidneys and caused a very serious hospital stint. She had to go back in for surgery today to get the cancer out. The sugery seemed to go well but as she was being taken back to the ICU, she crashed. Mom passed away this evening with Dad and I at her side.
The cord cutting including upgrading to the latest router, and now we're all streaming. On the plus side we cut our bill in about half. We'll see how it goes!